teaboot:

fairycosmos:

another confusing thing is when a man calls you beautiful or something and you watch him watching himself say it and you see that he’s more impressed by his own observation/consumption of you than by your organic presence and you realise the whole thing is basically a performance and his ego is the audience

That’s when you say “yeah I know” and steal it from him

tykurwaaa:

MY NEW BLOG!!!!!! 

if ur a mutual then you can unfollow me here and head over to this blog! i just need a new start and clean my blog up jfc.

i may delete this blog in the future, but for now im just gonna put this post on queue.

MY NEW BLOG!!!!!! 

if ur a mutual then you can unfollow me here and head over to this blog! i just need a new start and clean my blog up jfc.

i may delete this blog in the future, but for now im just gonna put this post on queue.

hello-kitty-senpai:

sleepdontvisit:

hunterinabrowncoat:

striderdaves:

“i wish platonic dates were a thing” have you never gone out anywhere with any of your friends ever

But a lot of people genuinely don’t do this kind of stuff with their friends though. Like… it’s not really common to go out with one close friend and just the two of you go to a nice restaraunt, or go for a walk together or whatever. A lot of people spend their time hanging out with groups of friends. Actually spending quality time with one friend, focussing on them, and doing something together, just the two of you…. isn’t a very common thing?

y’all can’t go on WALKS with your FRIENDS?????

dude thats the MOST common thing wtf are you talking about, holy shit

None of y'all have ever had friends

whitediamondfairy:

inkyharmonicadvances:

eeveelutionsforequality:

dasha-loses-it:

keyhollow:

womynbornwitch:

keyhollow:

womynbornwitch:

keyhollow:

womynbornwitch:

women are fundamentally repulsed by the thought of engaging in sex where their partner isn’t consenting. most men, even if they haven’t committed rape, are aroused by the thought of their partner being nonconsenting. and im called evil for despising these monsters?

Well now, this is just incorrect

explain

Because plenty of women have rape fantasies, is actually very common, confessed, and studied. It isn’t terribly studied in men but they appear to fantasize about it much less based on the studies I’ve seen in the area, which are very few. All of this considered, both sets, whether majorities or not, still don’t represent the whole, and those with the rape fantasies tend not to act upon them, otherwise we would see a ridiculous surge in female rapists. Or maybe they just haven’t been caught, who knows.

Either way, taking the actions of even a large percentage of the group and using it to persecute the whole, especially based on this, a trait they can in no way control, is sexism.

females with rape fantasies tend to fantasize about being raped themselves because of internalized misogyny and self harm

however, almost all men masturbate to women being raped on a nightly basis

Or they just think it’s hot. Women masturbate to porn, both video, image, and literature, all the time as well. BDSM is super popular among women too, both as subs and doms.

Also, all porn is not rape. Many porn stars are there because they want to be there. Like go to work, like any employee, they provide a service willingly, and they are paid. They may choose to leave this profession at any time. You also cannot prove almost all men do that.

Did OP just miss the whole fujoshi subculture, which has dominated fandoms for the last, I unno, 40 or so years? Hot yaoiz rape is mainly written and enjoyed by women.

“women are fundamentally repulsed by the thought of engaging in sex where their partner isn’t consenting”

Yeah, I’m sure female rapists are just completely repulsed by what they’re doing. They can’t stand it. They’re disturbed by it. Definitely. Mhmm.

Plus, you only need scroll through the dubcon and noncon fics on any given fanfiction site to see that plenty of women fantasize about rape. Women are not all repulsed by imaginary rape. And that’s fine. That doesn’t make them rapists or bad people, it’s just imaginary.

“most men, even if they haven’t committed rape, are aroused by the thought of their partner being nonconsenting”

That’s nearly 4 billion people you’re talking about there - maybe don’t be quite so hasty in generalizing them.

That said… they’re not rapists if they haven’t raped anybody. If they’re not hurting anybody, and they’re not trying to hurt anybody, then what’s the big deal? They’re imagining things. Oh no, completely imaginary thoughts, however will anyone escape this evil!?

“however, almost all men masturbate to women being raped on a nightly basis”

Gay men definitely do not jack off thinking about women.

I’d love to see your evidence for this claim. I’d love to see a reliable statistic that shows that almost all men have rape fantasies nightly and masturbate to them. Tbh I doubt that even a majority of men even masturbate on a nightly basis - how much free time and stamina and routine do you think people have?

“females with rape fantasies tend to fantasize about being raped themselves because of internalized misogyny and self harm”

What about the lesbians who have fantasies of being raped by women? Is that misogyny somehow?

What about the men who have fantasies of being raped?

There is research into why people have rape fantasies and - while it can differ greatly from individual to individual - it can follow themes of wanting to not have control or accountability in the situation.

(Also, as said above, plenty of women have fantasies of rape that don’t position themselves as the victim - you’re generalizing so much here and it’s ridiculous.)

I don’t think I’d call an enjoyable masturbation session and an orgasm self-harm, that’s kind of the opposite of what it is.

“and im called evil for despising these monsters?”

Not evil necessarily, you’re just a bit of a sexist dick.

~ Vape

‘Women who don’t have the same sexual fantasies as I do are not real women.’

“Women who dare not have fluffy cloudly vanilla-flavored sexual fantasies are evil skanks who must be shamed and brought down for not pleasing ME.”

Then again, what can we expect from a whiny radfem TERF?

karinakamichi:

Most bh stans I’ve encountered argue that Lust was just ‘bloodlust’ just say that to excuse her shitty development. Um, being the representations of Envy, Greed, Sloth, Pride, Gluttony, and Wrath didn’t stop those sins from inhibiting some humanity. FMAB and Manga Lust deserved SO MUCH BETTER.

Gluttony being devastated about Lust’s death worked in 03 because she had her own development too and they actually had a bond

In FMA:B she’s flat as hell, dies so Roy can have a heroic moment, and then her death is made a plot point re: Gluttony’s fury

I hate her death with a fiery passion (no pun intended)

yeaaah this blog is hella messy and i think im gonna remake it. less political stuff and more aesthetic/history/fandoms.